Hockey, Aging, and Why I Refuse to Slow Down

Hockey, Aging, and Why I Refuse to Slow Down

By Dr. Yaron Lohr, DC, MBA, CFSA

Last week I got home from a late hockey game.

I was exhausted.

My lower back was sore.

My shoulders were tight.

I had bruises on my legs.

And I couldn’t have been happier.

At nearly 48 years old, some people think that’s crazy.

After all, society has a script for people my age.

Work.

Pay bills.

Watch television.

Complain about getting older.

Accept that your best physical years are behind you.

Slowly shrink your world.

But every time I step onto the ice, I’m reminded that I don’t have to follow that script.

None of us do.

Hockey Isn’t About Hockey Anymore

When I was younger, hockey was about competition.

It was about scoring goals.

Winning games.

Proving myself.

Being faster.

Being stronger.

Being tougher.

Today, hockey means something completely different.

Today, hockey is a reminder.

A reminder that I am still capable.

A reminder that I am still learning.

A reminder that I am still alive.

When the puck drops, nobody cares what degrees I have.

Nobody cares that I own clinics.

Nobody cares about business.

The ice doesn’t care about titles.

The ice tells the truth.

You either prepared or you didn’t.

You either moved your body or you didn’t.

You either maintained your health or you didn’t.

The ice exposes reality.

And I respect that.

My Body Wasn’t Supposed To Be Here

There was a time when I wasn’t sure I would be playing hockey again.

In my twenties, I suffered a massive lumbar disc herniation.

The pain was relentless.

The weakness was real.

The fear was real.

Eventually I underwent lumbar surgery.

Like many patients, I found myself wondering what my future would look like.

Would I always hurt?

Would I lose the activities I loved?

Would my life become smaller?

Those experiences shaped me.

Not only as a patient.

But as a healthcare provider.

Because when you’ve lived through pain yourself, you begin to understand something important:

Most people aren’t afraid of pain.

They’re afraid of losing their life.

They’re afraid of losing the ability to play with their children.

Travel.

Exercise.

Work.

Compete.

Move.

Pain is rarely the whole problem.

The loss of function is.

That’s why our mission at Posture Perfect Wellness Center has never been simply to reduce pain.

Our goal is bigger than that.

We want to help people reclaim their lives.

The Greatest Opponent Is Time

When I was younger, I thought my opponent was the player across from me.

Now I know better.

The greatest opponent any of us will ever face is time.

Every year we lose a little muscle.

A little strength.

A little power.

A little resilience.

Unless we actively fight to keep it.

The human body follows a simple rule:

Use it or lose it.

Unfortunately, many people stop using it.

Not because they want to.

Because life gets busy.

Work gets demanding.

Kids need attention.

Schedules become packed.

Movement gets pushed further and further down the priority list.

Then one day they wake up and wonder what happened.

The answer is rarely one event.

It’s usually years of gradual surrender.

What I See Every Day

As a chiropractor and rehabilitation specialist, I see this every week.

A patient comes into my office with neck pain.

Back pain.

Hip pain.

Knee pain.

Headaches.

The pain brought them in.

But the real issue is often much bigger.

They’ve stopped moving.

They’ve stopped challenging themselves.

They’ve stopped believing their body can improve.

Some have accepted a future they don’t actually want.

And that breaks my heart.

Because the body is incredibly adaptable.

I’ve seen people in their seventies become stronger.

I’ve seen chronic pain patients reclaim their independence.

I’ve seen athletes return after injuries they thought would end their careers.

The body wants to heal.

But it needs movement.

It needs purpose.

It needs a reason.

Why Sports Matter

One reason I encourage children to participate in sports is because sports teach lessons that extend far beyond athletics.

Sports teach discipline.

Accountability.

Resilience.

Humility.

Confidence.

They teach children how to lose.

How to recover.

How to work toward a goal.

As a father, I don’t care if my son becomes a professional athlete.

That’s not the point.

The point is growth.

The point is learning what he’s capable of.

The point is developing habits that will serve him long after the scoreboard is forgotten.

Because one day the games end.

The lessons remain.

Health Is Not About Looking Good

One of the biggest misconceptions in our culture is that health is about appearance.

It isn’t.

Health is function.

Health is capability.

Health is having enough strength to pick up your grandchild.

Enough mobility to travel.

Enough endurance to enjoy life.

Enough resilience to recover when things go wrong.

A six-pack doesn’t guarantee health.

A scale doesn’t define health.

Function defines health.

The ability to participate in life defines health.

One Day I’ll Play My Last Game

One day I will skate off the ice for the last time.

We all will.

The goal isn’t to avoid that reality.

The goal is to make sure that day arrives because I chose it.

Not because my body forced it upon me.

That’s why I continue to train.

That’s why I continue to prioritize movement.

That’s why I continue to challenge myself.

Not because I’m trying to stay young forever.

Because I’m trying to stay capable for as long as possible.

My Message To You

You don’t need to play hockey.

You don’t need to lift weights.

You don’t need to run marathons.

But you do need something.

Something that challenges you.

Something that demands effort.

Something that reminds you that you’re stronger than you think.

Something that keeps you engaged in life.

The activity itself doesn’t matter.

The commitment does.

Because the moment we stop moving, stop growing, and stop challenging ourselves, life begins to get smaller.

I don’t play hockey because I’m afraid of aging.

I play hockey because it reminds me how I want to age.

Strong.

Capable.

Resilient.

Grateful.

And fully engaged in the life I’ve been given.

Keep moving.

Keep learning.

Keep challenging yourself.

Your future self is depending on it.

Dr. Yaron Lohr, DC, MBA, CFSA
Founder, Posture Perfect Wellness Center

Alleviate Pain. Restore Function. Optimize Health.

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